Saucers

I just realised the importance of a saucer when drinking a cup of tea.
you can put your sugar cubes if you want it sweetened.
you can put your dirty spoon on it if it's not clean.
And the best of all, if you happen to spill the tea, it's there to catch it so you won't make the table dirty.

Then I thought it's a bit like my life

I mean, there is the saying from Forrest Gump


"Life is like a box of chocolate, you don't know what you get until you open it"




That, in fact, is also true.
But saucer is more like my ideal man actually


Anyway, I'm not trying to talk about a man today.


I'm currently kind of stuck on "what's the best next move" thing right now.
I'm not young enough to play the "young and stupid card" anymore (and it's not that I want to either...)
But then it's about time I get my career settled, and life settled, and I'd like that too.


I thought I was the only one who was having this dilemma.

And it turns out that it's not.

It seems like many people around me is having the same problem.



We know something is not right, but we don't know what is not right.



But then saying that, there is a saying in japan that means

Sticking to 1 thing for 3 years will solve the troubles



why does the life has to get so complicated year by year?