Just living it

A day passes so quickly these days.

I wake up, go to work, come back home, exercise and sleep.

1 day at a time, it just ticks away.

And just like that, it has been a month ready.

A year with him went so quickly. Week by week, I could not wait for the days to end, so we can spend the weekend together. 

And now, it's just a counter to tell me how much I miss him. And to tell me that the chance of him coming back is becoming less and less.

In my head, I know he's not coming back. But I cannot help the feeling in my heart, that wants to go and hug him,  kiss him, and tell him how much I love him.

The solution to this problem is so simple. And he could easily take me back, any day he wanted to.

"But it's not what I want"

I know that's what he will tell me instead.

In few days he's coming home. But not into my arms.

I should have seen the signs, when even a holiday plans never had me in it. He never disagreed to me tagging along. But he never asked me to come along. 

I knew this would be how it ends.

I know the feeling of "He's the only man" will eventually go away.

I just wish that was now.

Pain

As we get older,  sometimes we get used to things we never wanted to get used to. 

like pain.

A pain of losing someone you love.

After 1 year and 14 days, he told me he loves me, but words weren't enough to show how he felt. And finally, we became official.

And that's how it ended.

I wanted this happiness to last longer. but for him, it was only good because he knows it's only temporary.

So I made a choice, to let go of that boy that I love so much, and love me back, just so I don't have to be in more pain, a year later when he leaves the country.

We left the house in the morning like nothing has ever happened. I took a few things with me that I wanted back, rest just sits there like any other day.

He kissed me goodbye like how he always does on the way to work. But only I knew that it will be the last kiss.

He said he's happy the way it is until the day comes. But I'm not.

I just love him that much.

I wish now that he never told me he loves me me. When he knows it's not forever.

little happiness of life

There are many ways to appreciate life and feel blessed to be in this life.

And today, I feel the warmth in my heart for having someone in my life to share my happiness.

I sit here wrapping one gift at a time, for my special boy that makes me smile.

It's not about what he does or does not do for me.

Little words he say, time he share with me, how he lies next to me, his being itself makes me smile.

I imagine his smile of when he open these gift, and I feel so happy.

Tonight, I'm the happiest girl on this life for having someone to make happy.

looking for the shadow

As I wake up with the sunlight shimmering through the curtains, I reached my arm across to find your warmth.

Just to find out that you're not there.

I raised myself and looked around, finally to realise that I am in my room alone, and not at yours.

Yet, I was still sleeping on the same side of the bed as if I was with you, leaving the other side empty.

It scared me that I already look for your presence, and how uncomfortable it is to be in my own room now.

I told myself not to fall in love again. But yet, I can't help looking for you....

To the beautiful angel in the sky

Don't drink and drive.

I don't think there is anything is as easy and as clear as this statement.

But because someone decided she don't care, and because someone decided to  be ignorant, because someone was so utterly stupid, one of our beautiful friend is now in heaven.

She was so cherished, so beautiful inside and out. I already miss her smiles and the fun chats we had.

"see you when you get back"

That's what she said to me before I left to Australia. I was thinking of the fun times we will have at acro when I get back.

But in just 1 week, everything has changed so much. And nothing hit me until I got back either. But it wasn't all a dream.

Julian is drowned in his tears Karen, you should be back here with us.... it was way too early for you to leave this planet, and we are not ready to say good bye.

tomorrow, there is going to be a lake of tears from all the friends you have touched, and will forever love you.

Rest in peace Karen, and I hope you took your dance shoes with you.

"until next time lah"

the power to say no.

so many times in my life, the want of spending time together over powered the want to looks after myself.

But this might finally be the time to put in practice.

I am better than who I think I am.

Withdrawls

I told myself I'm not falling in love again

I'm not falling in love with another guy, who won't love me back the way I want to be loved.

Yet, I can't help falling in love.

I kept telling myself he's not a love, just a good company.

I wonder to myself, what happened to me who were ok with not hearing back.

When did I get so needy again?

Knowing i'm just hurting myself again is just an act of stupidity. But may be it's too late...